Ray of hopes…..

The shadows and the tree

In context to a reply of a personal comment I have received.

It feels much better to know that someone else too have experienced the most of the things which I have gone through.

Well, it is true philosopher might not be emotionless but to an extent a philosopher may try to escape from emotions. Well I guess may be I don’t know much about emotions and maturity. But yes, few experiences are bitter and those teach us a lot. May be those experiences are the only reason that forces us to escape. Well I never believed in escaping but to a point, unknowingly I have done that too.

Well till yet I have learned that life is not what we see. Life is what we experience. There are several ways to look at it. We learn from our experience. Some are good and some are bad. But that really doesn’t matter. What matters here is that each of them teaches us a lot.

Every person has a teacher in their life throughout and I entitle the teacher as “MISTAKE”. The more mistakes we make the more we learn. Some of us identify the teacher soon; some take time and some never. The ones who can never recognise this teacher I call them fool. And yes, they are! Mistakes are the best friend in life. It critics you at the right time and kicks you well when you need a push.

Well, well, well. I have got my answer of my question in these lines “You have to tame your pain. In most cases your pain tames you. You cry in solitude and feel depressed. Your emotions rule you and you tend to lose way. This is lack of maturity. You need to whip your emotions to get them to the right direction.”

But do you really think we stay in harmony with nature when we share the pain with solitude? Well I haven’t experienced that so far. I always lost the harmony whenever I tired till the date.

Figuring out what life is exactly I came across one more learning. Truly saying at this I was very quick to judge. But my judgement was wrong. It was more biased and it was based on only on my point of view. I will say “Never judge others too quickly.” It may ruin the essence in life. It makes you detached from others. Every one isn’t expressive. Some people are very good at it and some just can not express ever. Judging people over this criterion is the biggest mistake I have done in my life. Now, I am glad to admit it because I pointed out my mistake at the right time.

To some extent I believed that “I do my thing and you do yours. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I”. Believing this I thought I have figured out what is life. But I was wrong. Life is not what we generally perceive or figure out. It is something else. I guess, life is like a sea wave that keeps on going up and down very frequently. And yes, this is life. It screws you right when you think you have figured it out. Figuring out life isn’t easy but not even tough too. All this is only possible if we give more emphasis on figuring out people instead of figuring out life. (* this thing I have learnt from a comment made over my writing.)