Life jolts, not the end!

Yesterday night I was pretty upset to hear my friend crying.This post is dedicated to a very dear friend who does not realize how good she is. I am no where trying to show sympathy but I am just trying my best to make her realize that the life is not that bad.

I know I am quite young to comment over life. But I would like to mention. I am sure many of you will not agree with me. By the way how do you take life as? Please let me know…. Some people says… life is very complex.. Some says its effortless… according to some its depends on how we perceive it and last but not the least.. Some says life is neither simple nor complex….

So many different perception about life.. which one should I consider right? Well.. I guess it differs from individual to individual… everyone look at it with different from aspect… for me life is a mystery… and mysteries cant be easily understood… you never know what the next moment going to serve you.. Life has beginning and it has a end too…, every beginning has an end and this thing is just about to end if you are not careful enough… ending doesn’t always means to be dead… but yes… it always refers to losing the charm of life… sometime it blooms like a flower and sometime it just fades away.. it never stops.. It always keeps moving forward….. It can not be back up…life never seems to rest in search of fulfilment…

We have to learn how to surf in the ocean of sorrow and sadness, and hope for the shore of the happiness. It will come and is always on the way. We just don’t know how long it will take but it is on the way and hope is what we need… J

Life is darker then the darkness sometime… but there is always a brighter side of every thing… I believe in being positive…. So, the brighter side of the darkness – The life will be full of joy and happiness, when a person learns to find brighter side of the darkness.

There is always a brighter side at the end of the darkness and we will never be able to find if we keep ourselves in the darkness without even trying to move. I know, it hurts a lot when someone leaves on the halfway but instead of keeping ourselves in the past, we should look forward to the bright future which is ahead. The past was mere few years but why to waste whole life because of those few years?

I know that making rounds of those temples did not help, I know the fasts did not help but God is not there in those temples. God is nothing but inner you. God did not let that relationship work because God knew the future and certainly did not want you to be in the pain for the whole life. That person left you because he was not the right person for you and it was his bad luck that he did not get you, not yours.

The life is so beautiful and full of joy. I am not asking you to forget the past, don’t even forget a single moment of it but also learn to look at the present which is welcoming you with open arms. Embrace the present with a smile and joy. And once you learn to do it, the past won’t make those tears come out.

This one is for everyone, learn to live life with joy, I know we face lot of difficulties in the life but we should learn how to overcome them. If you have lost something in the life, do not waste time thinking why did you lose it but spend time in thinking how can you be better so that you don’t make that kind of loss again.

When you lose something, it simply means that there is something better in the basket which is waiting for you. Just pass the test of life and you will never regret.

And I think people should start thinking broader, think beyond “me and myself”. I really do not understand why people have narrow thinking, why they can’t think beyond “myself”, think selflessly.

The day when we all start thinking selflessly, it will be the world’s happiest day. Helping out people without expecting anything gives the happiness which nothing else can give. But people fail to understand that.

Mom

Dear Mom, I want U know

I respect and admire U most

For who U are….

For what U taught me

U gave me wings to fly

U taught me where is home

U told me my roots

Oh! My dear mother I love U

U r amazing in everyway

I just want you to know

That I’m proud, U r my mother

Mom U gave the greatest contribution

For the good qualities I have

Mom U r so gentle yet so strong

U be on my side when I need U most

U r the best teacher, counsellor and playmate

Mom U r simple the best and U r really great